If I wanted to hear how you think I should live my life, I'd have asked.

I'm not a big "everyone talks about my life!" person but it gets frustrating and is extremely downgrading to my self esteem when all I hear is how the decisions I'm making for my life are wrong. It could be that I cooked spaghetti when I should have cooked tacos. Or how I washed the cups before the plates when everyone knows it's supposed to be the other way around. So fucking annoying. Accept that I am my own person. If I want to work a little extra every week so that I am able to buy my kids birthday's and christmas rather than be without the money and stay home to make sure my house is cleaned... that's my own damn choice.

If you don't like messy homes, then stay the fuck at your own.