Lies.
Big lies. Little lies. Any type of lies.
I just don't believe in them.
Why lie? If the person you are talking to isn't worthy of knowing the truth... then why are you wasting your time talking to them? Or more importantly, why are you wasting their time and feelings?
I am an open person. I totally believe that no matter if you are going to be rejected or accepted, you should tell the truth. The person is going to find out sooner or later... and you'll look like a bigger fool in the end anyway.
I am an accepting person. If you are a person in my life... you are important to me. I will accept your choices. It's your life. I love you for YOU. And whether it hurts my feelings or not... I will respect you for being honest with me.
My feelings are just hurt right now. I feel like no matter who it is and how they make you feel, they're going to lie to you or about you at one point or another. I am grateful for the friendships I have been blessed with and I love each and every person in my life. I am sure I'm not always the greatest friend, mother, daughter... but I try. I wouldn't intentionally hurt you. And who knows.. maybe people don't think about it when they're lying. Maybe they're protecting themselves. I just don't get it. There are people who are craving attention... so they either lie to keep a person in their life, or lie to push people out of a person's life. (Did they even make sense?) Point is, LYING HURTS. It'll hurt me, the person you're lying to, and yourself.
Like I said... I love each and every person in my life for being themselves. And I would rather cry over the truth, than smile over a lie.
I want to be the person that is worthy of telling the truth, and knowing the truth.
Maybe I have a little to work on.
That's all.
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